Transgender Man & Father
At the beginning of 2020, I took my first steps into my medical transition from female to male. It was a time filled with equal parts fear, hope, and determination. I underwent top surgery and began hormone replacement therapy with testosterone, finally allowing my outside to start aligning with the person I had always known myself to be. The process wasn’t easy, but it was deeply affirming. For the first time, I felt like I was moving through the world more honestly and authentically.
Life, however, had more waiting for me. In September of 2021, I found out I was pregnant with my first son. Two years later, I welcomed my second son into the world. In what felt like the blink of an eye, I went from navigating my own transition to becoming the father of two energetic, curious, and rambunctious little boys. My days quickly filled with laughter, noise, sleepless nights, and the kind of love that completely reshapes your heart.
Not long after, my life took another unexpected turn when I became a single father. Suddenly, everything revolved around my boys—their needs, their safety, their happiness, and their future. Parenthood stopped being just one part of my identity and became the center of my world. Every decision I make now is guided by one simple goal: raising my sons to grow into kind, respectful, and confident men.
Join me on this journey of becoming a good man and a good father. Read more about it below…
